• Plant a tree on your birthday.
    Never underestimate the power of love.
    Have a dog.
    Marry only for love.
    Rekindle old friendships.
    Keep secrets.
    Say "thank-you" a lot.
    Don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
    Commit yourself to constant improvement.
    Strive for excellence, not for perfection.
    Return borrowed vehicles with the gas tank filled.
    Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
    Dance like no-one is watching. Sing like no-one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt.
    Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
    Take responsibility for every area of your life.
    Wear polished shoes.
    Leave the toilet seat in the down position.
    Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
    Have a firm handshake.
    Drink champagne for no reason at all.
    Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
    Wave at kids on school buses.
    Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.
    Look people in the eye.
    Never refuse homemade brownies.
    Return all things you borrow.
    Feed a stranger's expired parking meter.
    Call your mother.
    Sing in a choir.
    be there when people need you.
    Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
    Say "please" a lot.
    Count your blessings.
    Don't be afraid to say "I made a mistake."
    Carry jumper cables in your trunk.
    Use the good silver.
    Sing in the shower.
    Be the first to say hello.
    Stop blaming others.
    Always accept an outstretched hand.
    Learn three clean jokes.
    Send lots of Valentines Day cards and sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
    Floss your teeth.
    Keep your promises (no matter what).
    Plant flowers every spring.
    Avoid negative people.
    Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
    Keep it simple.
    Compliment three people everyday.
    Be forgiving of yourself and others.
    Remember other people's birthdays.
    Compliment even small improvements.
    Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures.
    Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
    Don't expect life to be fair.
    Over tip breakfast waitresses.
    Leave everything a little better than you found it.

We are the Bridge

I didn’t write this and “Richard” isn’t a Silver Chord member, but I like it and thought I’d share.

“We Are the Bridge”

My name’s Richard. I’m 74. I sometimes think our generation is the bridge between two tworlds — one made of dirt roads and handwritten letters, the other made of satellites and screens in our pockets.

I was born in a house without air conditioning. Summer meant open windows and the hum of a box fan. We knew the neighbors by name, and if your bike chain broke, you knocked on any door until someone found a wrench. We grew up on patience — waiting for the mail, waiting for the library to open, waiting for the radio to play our favorite song again.

Then the world sped up. Phones shrank, music became invisible, and the news didn’t take days to reach us — it arrived in our palms before we finished breakfast. We learned to type, to swipe, to tap. We learned to talk to machines and have them talk back. We learned… because we always had to.

We’ve seen milk delivered to the door in glass bottles, and we’ve scanned groceries without a cashier. We’ve dropped coins in payphones and made video calls across oceans. We’ve known the sound of silence — no buzzing notifications — and the sound of an entire world pinging at once.

Sometimes younger folks think we’re behind. But here’s what I know: our generation knows both worlds. We can plant tomatoes and write an email. We can tell a story without Google, and then fact-check ourselves with it. We know the weight of a handwritten letter because we’ve held it, and we know the reach of a message sent in seconds because we’ve pressed “send” and watched a reply arrive from thousands of miles away.

We are proof that you can change without losing yourself. That you can honor where you came from while learning where the world is going.

We’ve buried friends and welcomed grandchildren. We’ve watched diseases disappear and new ones arrive. We’ve known paper maps and GPS, postcards and emojis, patience and immediacy.

And maybe that’s our real gift — we carry the memory of a slower, quieter world, and the skills to navigate the fast, loud one. We can teach the young that not everything needs to happen instantly… and remind the old that it’s never too late to try something new.

We are the bridge. The middle chapter. The link between what was and what will be.

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