• Look people in the eye.
    Keep it simple.
    Wave at kids on school buses.
    Call your mother.
    Return all things you borrow.
    Commit yourself to constant improvement.
    Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
    Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
    Keep secrets.
    Rekindle old friendships.
    Stop blaming others.
    Strive for excellence, not for perfection.
    Sing in the shower.
    Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.
    Have a firm handshake.
    Send lots of Valentines Day cards and sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
    Compliment even small improvements.
    Avoid negative people.
    Sing in a choir.
    Dance like no-one is watching. Sing like no-one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt.
    Be forgiving of yourself and others.
    Plant a tree on your birthday.
    Say "thank-you" a lot.
    Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures.
    Drink champagne for no reason at all.
    Leave the toilet seat in the down position.
    Wear polished shoes.
    Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
    Floss your teeth.
    Have a dog.
    Don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
    Never underestimate the power of love.
    Feed a stranger's expired parking meter.
    Leave everything a little better than you found it.
    Count your blessings.
    Don't be afraid to say "I made a mistake."
    Always accept an outstretched hand.
    Carry jumper cables in your trunk.
    Don't expect life to be fair.
    Compliment three people everyday.
    Say "please" a lot.
    Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
    Use the good silver.
    Never refuse homemade brownies.
    Be the first to say hello.
    Keep your promises (no matter what).
    Learn three clean jokes.
    Take responsibility for every area of your life.
    Over tip breakfast waitresses.
    Plant flowers every spring.
    Marry only for love.
    be there when people need you.
    Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
    Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
    Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
    Remember other people's birthdays.
    Return borrowed vehicles with the gas tank filled.

We are the Bridge

I didn’t write this and “Richard” isn’t a Silver Chord member, but I like it and thought I’d share.

“We Are the Bridge”

My name’s Richard. I’m 74. I sometimes think our generation is the bridge between two tworlds — one made of dirt roads and handwritten letters, the other made of satellites and screens in our pockets.

I was born in a house without air conditioning. Summer meant open windows and the hum of a box fan. We knew the neighbors by name, and if your bike chain broke, you knocked on any door until someone found a wrench. We grew up on patience — waiting for the mail, waiting for the library to open, waiting for the radio to play our favorite song again.

Then the world sped up. Phones shrank, music became invisible, and the news didn’t take days to reach us — it arrived in our palms before we finished breakfast. We learned to type, to swipe, to tap. We learned to talk to machines and have them talk back. We learned… because we always had to.

We’ve seen milk delivered to the door in glass bottles, and we’ve scanned groceries without a cashier. We’ve dropped coins in payphones and made video calls across oceans. We’ve known the sound of silence — no buzzing notifications — and the sound of an entire world pinging at once.

Sometimes younger folks think we’re behind. But here’s what I know: our generation knows both worlds. We can plant tomatoes and write an email. We can tell a story without Google, and then fact-check ourselves with it. We know the weight of a handwritten letter because we’ve held it, and we know the reach of a message sent in seconds because we’ve pressed “send” and watched a reply arrive from thousands of miles away.

We are proof that you can change without losing yourself. That you can honor where you came from while learning where the world is going.

We’ve buried friends and welcomed grandchildren. We’ve watched diseases disappear and new ones arrive. We’ve known paper maps and GPS, postcards and emojis, patience and immediacy.

And maybe that’s our real gift — we carry the memory of a slower, quieter world, and the skills to navigate the fast, loud one. We can teach the young that not everything needs to happen instantly… and remind the old that it’s never too late to try something new.

We are the bridge. The middle chapter. The link between what was and what will be.

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