• Avoid negative people.
    Look people in the eye.
    Keep secrets.
    Rekindle old friendships.
    Floss your teeth.
    Compliment even small improvements.
    Commit yourself to constant improvement.
    Have a firm handshake.
    Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
    Count your blessings.
    Keep your promises (no matter what).
    Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures.
    Always accept an outstretched hand.
    Sing in a choir.
    Leave the toilet seat in the down position.
    Learn three clean jokes.
    Return all things you borrow.
    Send lots of Valentines Day cards and sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
    Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
    Return borrowed vehicles with the gas tank filled.
    Be the first to say hello.
    Don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
    Don't be afraid to say "I made a mistake."
    Take responsibility for every area of your life.
    Sing in the shower.
    Don't expect life to be fair.
    Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.
    Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
    Say "please" a lot.
    Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
    Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
    Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
    Drink champagne for no reason at all.
    Leave everything a little better than you found it.
    Wear polished shoes.
    Marry only for love.
    Wave at kids on school buses.
    Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
    Compliment three people everyday.
    be there when people need you.
    Strive for excellence, not for perfection.
    Never underestimate the power of love.
    Plant flowers every spring.
    Never refuse homemade brownies.
    Say "thank-you" a lot.
    Feed a stranger's expired parking meter.
    Be forgiving of yourself and others.
    Have a dog.
    Dance like no-one is watching. Sing like no-one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt.
    Over tip breakfast waitresses.
    Call your mother.
    Plant a tree on your birthday.
    Remember other people's birthdays.
    Carry jumper cables in your trunk.
    Keep it simple.
    Use the good silver.
    Stop blaming others.

Voice Placement

It is a sad fact that most of us are lazy singers and creatures of habit. Many of us are also scared of the sound of our own voice. But voice is really what choral singing is all about.

Your voice should come from your open mouth. This implies a couple of obvious things:

Open your mouth! Don’t force it open ridiculously wide as that will strain it and make it harder to form syllables quickly. But do make the sounds larger than you would in normal conversation so your audience can hear you.

Sing your vowels — AH, EH, EE, OH, OO and repeat, exaggerating the size a little each time until it starts to feel forced.

Produce the sound from your mouth. This means getting the sound production up front, out of your chest and your throat — and definitely out from behind your nose! Try humming a sustained, comfortable note. Feel your throat, then further up at the back of your jawbone and finally right beside your lips. You should feel the strongest vibration at the lips. If it’s anywhere further back, you’re swallowing your voice and it gets muffled and dull.

Buzz your lips. Feel where the energy’s going from? Now open your mouth without letting the sound drift back. Sing a simple song – “Mary Had a Little Lamb” will do – while focusing on keeping the sound at the front of your mouth. With practice your voice will get brighter and you’ll waste less energy trying to push the sound out.

The shower is a great place to practice!

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