• Leave the toilet seat in the down position.
    Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
    Always accept an outstretched hand.
    Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
    Drink champagne for no reason at all.
    Sing in a choir.
    Have a firm handshake.
    Have a dog.
    Say "thank-you" a lot.
    Be the first to say hello.
    Commit yourself to constant improvement.
    Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
    Don't expect life to be fair.
    Strive for excellence, not for perfection.
    Compliment three people everyday.
    Count your blessings.
    Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
    Plant flowers every spring.
    Keep secrets.
    Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
    Keep your promises (no matter what).
    Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
    Return all things you borrow.
    Avoid negative people.
    Remember other people's birthdays.
    Don't be afraid to say "I made a mistake."
    Compliment even small improvements.
    Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures.
    Be forgiving of yourself and others.
    Say "please" a lot.
    Use the good silver.
    Stop blaming others.
    Carry jumper cables in your trunk.
    Send lots of Valentines Day cards and sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
    Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
    Floss your teeth.
    Don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
    Feed a stranger's expired parking meter.
    Wave at kids on school buses.
    Sing in the shower.
    Keep it simple.
    Never refuse homemade brownies.
    Take responsibility for every area of your life.
    Over tip breakfast waitresses.
    Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.
    Call your mother.
    Leave everything a little better than you found it.
    Learn three clean jokes.
    be there when people need you.
    Dance like no-one is watching. Sing like no-one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt.
    Return borrowed vehicles with the gas tank filled.
    Never underestimate the power of love.
    Marry only for love.
    Rekindle old friendships.
    Plant a tree on your birthday.
    Look people in the eye.
    Wear polished shoes.

We are the Bridge

I didn’t write this and “Richard” isn’t a Silver Chord member, but I like it and thought I’d share.

“We Are the Bridge”

My name’s Richard. I’m 74. I sometimes think our generation is the bridge between two tworlds — one made of dirt roads and handwritten letters, the other made of satellites and screens in our pockets.

I was born in a house without air conditioning. Summer meant open windows and the hum of a box fan. We knew the neighbors by name, and if your bike chain broke, you knocked on any door until someone found a wrench. We grew up on patience — waiting for the mail, waiting for the library to open, waiting for the radio to play our favorite song again.

Then the world sped up. Phones shrank, music became invisible, and the news didn’t take days to reach us — it arrived in our palms before we finished breakfast. We learned to type, to swipe, to tap. We learned to talk to machines and have them talk back. We learned… because we always had to.

We’ve seen milk delivered to the door in glass bottles, and we’ve scanned groceries without a cashier. We’ve dropped coins in payphones and made video calls across oceans. We’ve known the sound of silence — no buzzing notifications — and the sound of an entire world pinging at once.

Sometimes younger folks think we’re behind. But here’s what I know: our generation knows both worlds. We can plant tomatoes and write an email. We can tell a story without Google, and then fact-check ourselves with it. We know the weight of a handwritten letter because we’ve held it, and we know the reach of a message sent in seconds because we’ve pressed “send” and watched a reply arrive from thousands of miles away.

We are proof that you can change without losing yourself. That you can honor where you came from while learning where the world is going.

We’ve buried friends and welcomed grandchildren. We’ve watched diseases disappear and new ones arrive. We’ve known paper maps and GPS, postcards and emojis, patience and immediacy.

And maybe that’s our real gift — we carry the memory of a slower, quieter world, and the skills to navigate the fast, loud one. We can teach the young that not everything needs to happen instantly… and remind the old that it’s never too late to try something new.

We are the bridge. The middle chapter. The link between what was and what will be.

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