• Use the good silver.
    Rekindle old friendships.
    Keep your promises (no matter what).
    Over tip breakfast waitresses.
    be there when people need you.
    Carry jumper cables in your trunk.
    Stop blaming others.
    Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures.
    Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
    Feed a stranger's expired parking meter.
    Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.
    Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
    Drink champagne for no reason at all.
    Commit yourself to constant improvement.
    Always accept an outstretched hand.
    Say "thank-you" a lot.
    Count your blessings.
    Sing in a choir.
    Have a firm handshake.
    Never underestimate the power of love.
    Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
    Dance like no-one is watching. Sing like no-one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt.
    Plant a tree on your birthday.
    Leave the toilet seat in the down position.
    Compliment even small improvements.
    Don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
    Send lots of Valentines Day cards and sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
    Compliment three people everyday.
    Never refuse homemade brownies.
    Be the first to say hello.
    Take responsibility for every area of your life.
    Remember other people's birthdays.
    Plant flowers every spring.
    Say "please" a lot.
    Keep it simple.
    Return borrowed vehicles with the gas tank filled.
    Be forgiving of yourself and others.
    Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
    Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
    Floss your teeth.
    Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
    Don't be afraid to say "I made a mistake."
    Sing in the shower.
    Wear polished shoes.
    Call your mother.
    Return all things you borrow.
    Keep secrets.
    Don't expect life to be fair.
    Strive for excellence, not for perfection.
    Avoid negative people.
    Look people in the eye.
    Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
    Have a dog.
    Leave everything a little better than you found it.
    Learn three clean jokes.
    Wave at kids on school buses.
    Marry only for love.

We are the Bridge

I didn’t write this and “Richard” isn’t a Silver Chord member, but I like it and thought I’d share.

“We Are the Bridge”

My name’s Richard. I’m 74. I sometimes think our generation is the bridge between two tworlds — one made of dirt roads and handwritten letters, the other made of satellites and screens in our pockets.

I was born in a house without air conditioning. Summer meant open windows and the hum of a box fan. We knew the neighbors by name, and if your bike chain broke, you knocked on any door until someone found a wrench. We grew up on patience — waiting for the mail, waiting for the library to open, waiting for the radio to play our favorite song again.

Then the world sped up. Phones shrank, music became invisible, and the news didn’t take days to reach us — it arrived in our palms before we finished breakfast. We learned to type, to swipe, to tap. We learned to talk to machines and have them talk back. We learned… because we always had to.

We’ve seen milk delivered to the door in glass bottles, and we’ve scanned groceries without a cashier. We’ve dropped coins in payphones and made video calls across oceans. We’ve known the sound of silence — no buzzing notifications — and the sound of an entire world pinging at once.

Sometimes younger folks think we’re behind. But here’s what I know: our generation knows both worlds. We can plant tomatoes and write an email. We can tell a story without Google, and then fact-check ourselves with it. We know the weight of a handwritten letter because we’ve held it, and we know the reach of a message sent in seconds because we’ve pressed “send” and watched a reply arrive from thousands of miles away.

We are proof that you can change without losing yourself. That you can honor where you came from while learning where the world is going.

We’ve buried friends and welcomed grandchildren. We’ve watched diseases disappear and new ones arrive. We’ve known paper maps and GPS, postcards and emojis, patience and immediacy.

And maybe that’s our real gift — we carry the memory of a slower, quieter world, and the skills to navigate the fast, loud one. We can teach the young that not everything needs to happen instantly… and remind the old that it’s never too late to try something new.

We are the bridge. The middle chapter. The link between what was and what will be.

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