• Always accept an outstretched hand.
    Look people in the eye.
    Plant a tree on your birthday.
    Keep your promises (no matter what).
    Compliment three people everyday.
    Never refuse homemade brownies.
    Drink champagne for no reason at all.
    Leave everything a little better than you found it.
    Call your mother.
    Avoid negative people.
    Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.
    Return all things you borrow.
    Return borrowed vehicles with the gas tank filled.
    Sing in a choir.
    Don't be afraid to say "I made a mistake."
    Take responsibility for every area of your life.
    Commit yourself to constant improvement.
    Don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
    Plant flowers every spring.
    Count your blessings.
    Carry jumper cables in your trunk.
    Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
    Over tip breakfast waitresses.
    Send lots of Valentines Day cards and sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
    Be the first to say hello.
    Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
    Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
    Keep secrets.
    Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
    Don't expect life to be fair.
    Have a dog.
    Say "thank-you" a lot.
    Floss your teeth.
    Rekindle old friendships.
    Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures.
    Wave at kids on school buses.
    Dance like no-one is watching. Sing like no-one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt.
    Stop blaming others.
    Say "please" a lot.
    Be forgiving of yourself and others.
    Keep it simple.
    Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
    Strive for excellence, not for perfection.
    Remember other people's birthdays.
    Feed a stranger's expired parking meter.
    Sing in the shower.
    Have a firm handshake.
    Marry only for love.
    Leave the toilet seat in the down position.
    Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
    Use the good silver.
    Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
    Compliment even small improvements.
    Never underestimate the power of love.
    be there when people need you.
    Wear polished shoes.
    Learn three clean jokes.

Breathing Tips

We all know how to breathe – we do it all the time. But when we sing, we have to adapt our normal breathing patterns to give us more control and capacity. This means becoming conscious of exactly what’s going on.

Breathing happens from your diaphragm, not your ribcage. We do NOT breathe by raising and lowering our shoulders; while they may pull up on the ribcage, they don’t expand it. Watch a professional singer; they don’t move their shoulders!

Breathing comes from the diaphragm, the muscle below the lungs. As you breathe in, think of your diaphragm dropping and the air flowing into your lungs. Let your stomach and your abdomen move outwards naturally; it’s okay.

If you must use your ribcage, think of it only as a reserve tank. It is in fact called “rib reserve”, and it should be used only if you know there’s going to be a sustained passage. Even then, think about your ribcage expanding, not your shoulders rising. Use your diaphragm breath first, then the rib reserve if you need it.

Stand or sit up straight (more on posture in another tip) so the air has a clean drop into your lungs. It can then also flow more easily out through your mouth.

Credit for the following tips goes to musicnotes.com, who are a great source of information as well as one of the largest publishers of downloadable sheet music in the world.

Exhale on a Hiss

A widespread (and very impactful) breathing exercise is one in which you will inhale for a specified amount of time, and then exhale on a hiss or “sss” sound. Find a metronome, or download a metronome app, and set it to 80 bpm in 4/4 time. Next, practice different amounts of time inhaling an exhaling. Remember that as you inhale, you should be breathing from your diaphragm, not your neck and shoulders. You can use this chart as a guide to get yourself started:

Inhale Exhale “sss”
4 Counts
4 Counts
4 Counts
4 Counts
2 Counts
2 Counts
2 Counts
2 Counts
1 Count
1 Count
1 Count
1 Count
4 Counts
8 Counts
12 Counts
16 Counts
4 Counts
8 Counts
12 Counts
16 Counts
4 Counts
8 Counts
12 Counts
16 Counts

Challenge yourself with this exercise and time how long you can exhale on a hiss before you run out of breath! Just make sure that you give yourself time in between each inhale so that you don’t get lightheaded.

The diaphragm is a dome-shaped, muscular and membranous structure that separates the chest and abdominal cavities in mammals; it is the principal muscle of respiration.

The Straw Technique

Another excellent breathing exercise is exhaling or humming a tune through a straw. When your breath is concentrated through the straw, you are solely focusing on breath support since your face and body will be remaining still. You can follow the same format as the “hiss” exercise, or you can hum the song(s) you are working on through the straw. You can inhale through the straw, or you can inhale outside of the straw if you feel lightheaded. Next, use your exhaled breath to carry your hum through the straw. Try and hum an entire song–it’s harder than it looks!

Make sure you are not biting down on the straw, but gently placing it between your lips so that all of the air you exhale is exiting through the straw.

Lay on Your Back

Laying on your back is another useful breathing exercise because it forces you to breathe with your diaphragm. Try singing through one of your voice pieces while you are laying on your back and place your hands on your stomach. Each time you inhale, you should feel your stomach expand, and your diaphragm move down. As you exhale, your diaphragm should move up and your stomach should flatten.

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