Don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
Be the first to say hello.
Stop blaming others.
Return borrowed vehicles with the gas tank filled.
Send lots of Valentines Day cards and sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
Always accept an outstretched hand.
Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
Wave at kids on school buses.
Count your blessings.
Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
Leave the toilet seat in the down position.
Have a firm handshake.
Drink champagne for no reason at all.
Learn three clean jokes.
Over tip breakfast waitresses.
Return all things you borrow.
Never refuse homemade brownies.
Sing in a choir.
Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.
Plant flowers every spring.
Don't expect life to be fair.
Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures.
be there when people need you.
Use the good silver.
Rekindle old friendships.
Commit yourself to constant improvement.
Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
Wear polished shoes.
Carry jumper cables in your trunk.
Keep your promises (no matter what).
Never underestimate the power of love.
Keep secrets.
Floss your teeth.
Say "thank-you" a lot.
Avoid negative people.
Remember other people's birthdays.
Marry only for love.
Keep it simple.
Compliment three people everyday.
Feed a stranger's expired parking meter.
Leave everything a little better than you found it.
Have a dog.
Look people in the eye.
Don't be afraid to say "I made a mistake."
Plant a tree on your birthday.
Take responsibility for every area of your life.
Sing in the shower.
Dance like no-one is watching. Sing like no-one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt.
Strive for excellence, not for perfection.
Compliment even small improvements.
Call your mother.
Be forgiving of yourself and others.
Say "please" a lot.
gentlemen: black pants, white shirt, black shoes (we supply your bow tie);
a Silver Chord Choir golf shirt (supplied by the choir) and black pants or skirt 
as Christmassy and festive as you like. Christmas sweaters, antlers, Christmas hats – you get the idea!
